The Use of Kindness

In Martin Seligman's Flourish, it is discussed how we should all display our strengths and be proud of what those are. We should practice them in a positive way and practice them when we are faced with a difficult situation. One of my strengths that I am proud to display is kindness. 
This weekend my grandma and aunt are coming up north to visit me from Southern California. My grandma is very modest and often times can judge the activities I partake in. As soon as she arrives I will smile with the brightest smile I can manage and will greet her positively knowing that a judgement could be said at any time. I will display my strength of kindness and only show a kind heart back to her no matter how strongly she disagrees with whom I am as a person. The reaction she will long for is something I do not want to give her. I will try and "kill her with kindness" rather than stand up for something that will result in an argument. I plan to use this strength as my weapon. By staying true to who I am and greeting her with open arms, I hope I will be able to understand more about her. I hope I will be able to figure out why she is more harsh towards me than others in the family. I also hope to prove to myself that kindness is truly a characteristic that God has blessed me with. I do not always have to give a comment back but rather a smile should be justified.

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